So i used to be a petrol attendant, that's where i met my then wife. She used to come pick up plastic & glass bottles for recycling, that's how she made a living for her family. She passed her matric so exceptional,problem she had a single parent who could barely make end meet. We started dating and a year later we were expecting our first child. I paid lobola for her then we moved in together. My wife then decided to go back to school, she enrolled in a private college for nursing, i paid for her fees of course. I too decided to register with UNISA, i can't be a petrol attendant my entire life. And i must say school was so draining, i repeated modules like crazy. My wife then completed her studies and got a job,now that's when things headed South,she no longer had time for us, inkonzo yase kameleni stopped she was always tired. We even spent 3 months not being intimate, the next thing motho ore o imile, just when i was to ask how is that even possible, she positively said," relax ase wa hao dear". Wabona gekesa bolaya motho day ela neh,nkase tsoge ke mmolaile, mogirl then moved out, leaving our daughter behind with me. I was just a moving corpse i must say, i was growing thin day by day. But i knew i had to pick up the pieces, if not for me, for my daughter. My mom offered to take care of my baby girl, so i finally managed to go to work,then study..it wasn't an easy road to indulge on,but i had no choice. I'm ashamed,but i completed my 4 years degree in 5 years😅😅😅emang pele there are people who never get to finish😅😅😅.. I am now a qualified teacher. Yoh ere ke le botseng, mogirl nou she's back home asa hlole a bereka, motho o nea cheat ka yena went back to his wife...o mpone kete dirile NSFAS ke iša motho sekolong, o mmure dhek on3